tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273998760028140856.post6108493489566162837..comments2023-10-22T03:16:31.189-06:00Comments on Recover Your Joy: Time for truthLouise Gallagherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13522775693728655487noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273998760028140856.post-91392647934809714442007-08-28T18:25:00.000-06:002007-08-28T18:25:00.000-06:00Yours is begining Carolyn in the amazing light of ...Yours is begining Carolyn in the amazing light of having come through that time into the time to be extraordinary!<BR/><BR/>You know so well there's no sense to his nonsense. And the fact we didn't see it simply means, we had no idea what we were dealing with!<BR/><BR/>LOL! Imagine that. Not understanding how someone thought lying and cheating was a respectful and considerate way to express their love. My goodness gosh golly gee! Imagine!<BR/><BR/>There is so much that has come through that time with you Carolyn -- and most of all, it's the amazing, extraordinary, incredible you!<BR/><BR/>Love right back!<BR/><BR/>LouiseLouise Gallagherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13522775693728655487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2273998760028140856.post-38881201576772665242007-08-28T11:17:00.000-06:002007-08-28T11:17:00.000-06:00Insightful post, Louise. Thank you."Where are you ...Insightful post, Louise. Thank you.<BR/><BR/>"Where are you holding onto the past in the belief it was the time that made the difference?"<BR/><BR/>I hold onto the past trying to find something of value for having invested thirty years of 'mortal time' in a narcissistic-relationship. <BR/><BR/>Surely there must be meaning in the relationship somewhere? A little gold waiting discovery? A diamond amongst the horse pucky? Surely I had some impact on the object of my affections? <BR/><BR/>I peer into the past seeking 'reason' in the unreasonable; 'sense' in the nonsense. Some proof I was not a total idiot fool for believing a man would want to change in order to stop hurting his family. <BR/><BR/>I now wear my fool's cap with pride, Louise. What a testament it is to my self-worth that I did not see a liar reflected in the eyes of my intimate partner. <BR/><BR/>Yet still I seek. Peering into three decades of time is a reclamation process for myself. It's such a surprise to discover we are who we were and we'll be who we is. Don't ya think? LOL<BR/><BR/>The concept of time gives me such a headache. If it weren't for the crow's feet and bifocals grounding me in the NOW, I'd still believe myself to be the innocent girl accepting his ring and whispering, "Yes! I will Love you for time and all eternity." <BR/><BR/>At a certain point though, his time was UP and mine was just beginning.<BR/><BR/>ha!<BR/><BR/><BR/>Love,<BR/><BR/>Carolyn, aka: CZBZAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com